Do not necessarily think in terms of obligation

 

If I ever get married, it'll be in a desert island, with no one there, there is only you & me. 

Well... at the beginning of our life we do not ask ourselves how we are going to end it up. We think neither about our future nor about love. But there is that point one reaches in life when everything needs an answer or, at least, there must be an answer. Everything seems to be either so platonic or romantic and we end up believing unbelievable things. That’s the mistake. The fact of falling in love easily could be extremely hurtful since love is a very difficult issue to be touched on. 

Most of the time single people regret being alone and a married couple would pay anything for being single. That’s called happiness. Anyone gives us rules about how to be happy. It just happens or not. There are no fixed rules in life but real facts and blank holes that need to be filled. 

There is that moment in which you can see your own path and it gives you two branches: you can be either optimistic or a coward. On the one hand, it is the platonic view of life; you can see the person of your dreams, waiting for you until the world ends, dreaming about you forever. On the other hand, there is the devilish side of life, you want to run away since you have realised that the human being’s perfect combination does not exist. 

Love? what about it? if you show interest and care too much... it's bad (unless the person you are showing interest to is mature enough and that's very difficult in most of the cases). If you ignore themselves, that's bad too. So... what do we have to do? One must reach the conclusion that life is senseless. And, in fact, it is. So take it easy. It does not have any kind of answer. There were ancient cultures who thought that one must work in order to fullfil God's will and believed in the idea of the "Beruf". But, my dears, those random things do not happen nowadays... I'm so sorry. What we have nowadays is called "The hard fact"; once you decide to act and not react is when you get into troubles.

I don’t want to talk a lot without saying much. I just want to speak effectively.

There are the ones who will make you laugh and there are the ones who will make you cry. There are those who hurt you and maybe they regret it right now. There are those who helped you in hard knocks and maybe they are proud of themselves right now. There are the firsts and there are the second. There are the tall and there are the short. There are the good and the bad. There are the slim and there are the fats. But at the end of our lives we are all the same, without pros and cons. 

The key to survive is to keep your mind fit as much as possible. Don’t become mad. Don’t hurt anyone or, at least, try it. 

Let somebody love you, life would not be possible without smiling. So let’s smile not for smiling sake but for the rest of your life. 

Note: there is a lot of implicit information in my words.Sorry for the punctuation marks, it comes from my mind. Kinda overflow of thoughts

Are we afraid of finishing life in the wrong direction? I hope someone could answer me that question any day. 

LET YOUR MIND BE CREATIVE